Time Flies | Day 3 | YoutubeMakeup94

It's weird how time works, and really does go by fast when you actual do stuff. 3 years ago in 4 days I said yes to my boyfriend to be his girlfriend. We were talking about it today, because recently we went to disneyland for our anniversary early. We just got back today. I was thinking to myself that it does not feel like it's been three years together. It's super weird to me that it feels more like 2 years together. My boyfriend has this idea that it feels that way because we became more serious with each other for only two years. The first year of the relationship is always hard because here you have this other person with you. You may not have alot in common with each other so you get frustrated because you don't understand it. I know I did. It was difficult to understand it at times. You not only had to think about for yourself but for the other person, boyfriend/girlfriend,  as well. My boyfriend and I definitely had some ups and some downs the first year of the relationship. I was very distant because I was not used to someone actual caring for me. Before my boyfriend I was in some tough relationships. Two out three of them cheated on me. So I never really trusted anyone after those situations. It was hard for me to open up. It still is. But I think i am more open than three years ago. The second year was alot easier and more flowy than the first. Because by then you know the person and how they work. What majority of their likes and dislikes. It doesn't matter if you don't get along all the time. It's going to happen. Every couple has their downs. Just some have more than others. And that's for you guys to figure out without the outside world butting in. Yes you can ask for advice on how to approach something or even vent to someone but someone else outside the relationship does not need to help solve the problem. It's up to the couple. By the third year, i believe we are pretty solid couple. We tired asking each other what we should work on this year and we could barely come up with things. All we have listed are new experiences and opening more up as an individual and a couple. We both are very enclosed people. Who don't like burden others. It's very interesting. Because we both want to help each other but we can't because we don't know how unless we tell each other, yet we dont.

Love is funny. You find this one person hoping to be the one. When you find the one you are extremely greatful and become sometimes needy for the other. Love is a good thing. It does not happen for everyone but that doesn't mean you should give up on it. I almost did but if I did then I would not be with my boyfriend today. I so lucky to have him in my life. I wish for all those out there to find your one and only.  Especially if you did like me and found the complete opposite of yourself. You get to experience a lot of different things you might of never encountered. It's a fun journey. You got to patient with that kind of person. Because they are not like you nor will they be. Take them for how they are and don't ever change them. You might find something(s) you really like about them.

I will see y'all tomorrow for another post

Love ya, kathyrn