Boundaries
Hey y'all so I am moving a couple of blog post onto this blog from my other blog. It just got too much dealing with more than 1 blog. So yea, I think there is about 10 blogs that I am moving onto this blog. For the 6th post moving onto this blog is all about my opinion on Boundaries.
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Boundaries are always a good thing to have. Because without boundaries then most would not know when to stop or know when they have crossed the line.
Let's get started!
You can be friends with someone then very quickly, somewhere in your conversation, a boundary can be crossed. Sometimes people cross a boundary that you can make you uncomfortable. In certain situations people think nothing of it and will just go along with it. But really you shouldn't just think nothing of it. You may not realize it but it does matter if something makes you uncomfortable or not. If it makes you uncomfortable then say something. You can be forced, pressured or even manipulated in something you do not want to do.
And just to let you guys know, I'm not taking about anything sexual or even rape. Rape is never a good thing but I'm taking about the times where you don't want to kiss, hold someone's hand, someone touching you or even someone saying something that has made you uncomfortable.
Anyways, at the same time you didn't know what to do. Maybe you didn't want to be rude. Like if you have been friends with something for quite sometime and you know how they act but now they are doing something that has made you uncomfortable & you don't want to say anything to tear apart your friendship. But seriously you should point out that you are feeling uncomfortable and don't really want to take about that certain thing. If they are a true friend, they accept that and stand by you. If they don't accept it then you don't need any of that drama because they will be bringing up topics that might make you uncomfotable to talk about.
What to do:
You can always try to address the situation, and plainly point of that you are feeling uncomfortable. You also would like to ask, if they don't mind, to talk about a different topic, just because you may not want to talk about it. You may say someone was encouraging you to do it. And, you may feel pressured to do it. In that situation, you should always do whatever makes you comfortable. If you are being pressured to do it then walk away and nicely say "no thank you, i do not feel very comfortable doing that." If that doesn't work and they keep pressuring you, talk to a parent or someone you trust about it.
That is all I have for today. Make sure you click the follow button. Also follow me on:
twitter- @DearYTKathyrn
youtube-https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7L0cv3GmPIRhVFYmnnWfzg
check it out:
Boundaries are always a good thing to have. Because without boundaries then most would not know when to stop or know when they have crossed the line.
Let's get started!
You can be friends with someone then very quickly, somewhere in your conversation, a boundary can be crossed. Sometimes people cross a boundary that you can make you uncomfortable. In certain situations people think nothing of it and will just go along with it. But really you shouldn't just think nothing of it. You may not realize it but it does matter if something makes you uncomfortable or not. If it makes you uncomfortable then say something. You can be forced, pressured or even manipulated in something you do not want to do.
And just to let you guys know, I'm not taking about anything sexual or even rape. Rape is never a good thing but I'm taking about the times where you don't want to kiss, hold someone's hand, someone touching you or even someone saying something that has made you uncomfortable.
Anyways, at the same time you didn't know what to do. Maybe you didn't want to be rude. Like if you have been friends with something for quite sometime and you know how they act but now they are doing something that has made you uncomfortable & you don't want to say anything to tear apart your friendship. But seriously you should point out that you are feeling uncomfortable and don't really want to take about that certain thing. If they are a true friend, they accept that and stand by you. If they don't accept it then you don't need any of that drama because they will be bringing up topics that might make you uncomfotable to talk about.
What to do:
You can always try to address the situation, and plainly point of that you are feeling uncomfortable. You also would like to ask, if they don't mind, to talk about a different topic, just because you may not want to talk about it. You may say someone was encouraging you to do it. And, you may feel pressured to do it. In that situation, you should always do whatever makes you comfortable. If you are being pressured to do it then walk away and nicely say "no thank you, i do not feel very comfortable doing that." If that doesn't work and they keep pressuring you, talk to a parent or someone you trust about it.
That is all I have for today. Make sure you click the follow button. Also follow me on:
twitter- @DearYTKathyrn
youtube-https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7L0cv3GmPIRhVFYmnnWfzg
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