Little Siblings

Hey y'all so I am moving a couple of blog post onto this blog from my other blog. It just got too much dealing with more than 1 blog. So yea, I think there is about 10 blogs that I am moving onto this blog. For the fourth post moving onto this blog is all about my opinion on bullying.
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If you are the oldest sibling, we all know that little sibling can pain sometimes. For me, I have 3 younger sisters and being the oldest means having a lot of responsibilities and enjoying it, but it is also great knowing that you get to be the first one to get a cell phone and my driver's license.Being the oldest sister is great, but sometimes it's not easy. And, still, I love every bit of being the oldest! Being the oldest sister, babysitting is also one of the great things we get to do, (even though it's not always great for the younger siblings). I have to make sure my little brother and sister stay out of trouble, I have to make sure all of my chores are done, and I have to follow all the rules. I also have to make sure I'm acting maturely, because my siblings are always looking up to me. Responsibilities are sometimes annoying, but with more responsibilities come more privileges. I get to go to the movies with my friends, stay up later, and get a bigger allowance. 
You know what else is great about being the oldest sister? PG-13 movies! It's cool knowing that you've matured enough to enjoy the kinds of movies that my little siblings aren't allowed to watch. So, when we're watching G-rated movies, it's great knowing that I can watch my movie next. Something else I like about being the oldest is that I don't have to go into the babysitting room at the gym. I can exercise with the adults whenever I want! Sometimes it can be really great being the oldest sister!One not so great thing about being the oldest sister is that your parents expect more from you. If you're blamed for something that you didn't do, usually  is your younger sibling. Sometimes, they want to make themselves seem like little angels, even if they're hiding their horns and tail underneath their angel halos. Sometimes, I think that the younger siblings are sooo lucky. But we get the good life every once in a while, too. We don't have to worry about getting hand-me-down clothes and toys all the time, which means we get to go shopping for our own clothes, and they're always new. One of my best friends and I are always looking for dresses in the junior's section to try on, (just for fun.) Even if we'd never buy them, it's fun to see what the new fashions are and what they look like when we try them on. It's great being in junior sizes now, because we get more of a variety of clothes to choose from. There are more styles that allow you to have shorter shorts, longer earrings, and much more that younger siblings can't have. Okay, I'm done complaining. I really love it when I get to help my little brother work on spelling, and my little sister with homework. I can tell that they really like spending time with me and learning what I teach them, so I take time to play board games and hang out with them when I can.

Okay now, if you are a younger sibling. Little sisters try to be mature and patient. Also think about something very carefully before you do it. Think about your thought before it blurts out of your mouth. If you don't think, about then world war 3 might start up depending what you say it me. And, it may not even be what you say, it just may be how you say it. Yes all know that you think your tough shit & cool, but remember I was once that age and yes I may have acted the same way you are acting now but it doesn't its right. Try not to live your life, like I did. I made my own mistakes. Now its your turn to make mistakes for you and not what I did. I know I am suppose to a great example for you and you may do certain things like I did but that doesn't mean you have to do everything that I did when I was your age. You may want to be like me, but remember you are your own person & you deserveto live your life like you want not like how I did. Also, sometime us big sisters don't understand why you always want to be around us so we may lash out and yell at you to go away. 

The sort of advice I want to give my 3 younger sisters, would be:

- Learn how to say "I'm Sorry" and genuinely mean it

- Pay attention to what people say. Their actions will tell you everything. Their will not.

- If a guy insults you, demeans you or brings out your insecurities and makes you feel bad about yourself, he is NOT the one and never worth your time. Do not try to flirt with him and definitely don't date him.

- Be yourself

- Use your favorite perfume or body spray every day

- This is your life, you've got fight for whats right to you. I am not always be there for you but I try my very best to be there when you do need me. 

- Fight for you believe. Fight for what's important to you. when you do stop fighting, it means you have thrown your hands in the air and quit. 

- make friends will as many people as possible. From people younger to older than you. you may learn a lot from people of all ages

- mend relationships as soon as the are broken

- you shouldn't and wont have everything in life figured before you are thirty.

- buy yourself flowers from time to time. even if you don't think you can spare the extra expense. But flowers may be the thing you need on a bad day, flowers have a way to lift someone's spirit

- embrace your quirks and imperfections

- forgive and forget about revenge

- somethings things that are "cool" tend to be not so cool. Wear lots of sunscreen. I don't care if the "cool people" have tans. You could get skin cancer and you don't want that. Cancer is hard to deal with

- being in a relationship will not always automatically make you happy

- love when ever you want to be loved, and do it will with all your heart. Do not love something just because someone told you to love it

- light that special candle you have been saving

- dont try to hide behind a mask of makeup. what you think are your imperfections, like your freckles laugh lines, make you who you are & you are beautiful.

- Dress however you want but dress in a respectful way. If I ever see you showing off your body in a inappropriate way, you can be sure that I will be all over you and it won't be pretty. Nobody is going to be respect you, if you don't respect yourself first. Don't let your lady parts hang out

- Sleep when you are tired. Depriving yourself of sleep will only make your emotions go up & down llike a roller-coaster. Nobody likes a crazy lady.

- other girls are not your enemy, unless you make them your enemy. Build up a strong group of girl friends. You're gonna need them.

- being a teenager can be boring, frustrating, excruciating and scary. But, I promise you that you'll look back on your teen years & smile.

- It's better to be single than to be trapped in a relationship, no matter how old you are. Take your time and date load of guys until you find your perfect match.

- And lastly, life isn't fair. Accept it and move forward.